candolim, goa

my first visit to goa. a ninety-hour date with bianca. living together: laying new bedsheets ; buying groceries ; cooking khichadi, and nibbling on poee ; washing utensils and cleaning the house ; wading in water, and walking on sand ; and dinner under an orange sky.

climbing to the top of a lighthouse ; climbing down, and spotting a hoopoe. getting laughed at for being a vegetarian in goa. eating caldine: coconut, and vegetables ; simple, and nice ; eaten with rice. riding a scooty. and, almost managing a handstand.

if i were to consider a life in india, then, goa’s slowness seems more appealing to me than bombay’s stress1, calcutta’s crowd, poona’s laziness, baroda’s monoculture, dehradun’s walls, delhi’s pollution2, gurgaon’s testosterone, and bangalore’s traffic.


  1. i was introduced to alisha lazarus on the evening of my return from goa. while discussing our respective complicated relationships with the city, i lamented how “you can smell bombay’s stress in the air”, and shared my farewell letter (from 2014)

  2. “i wake up each morning with some blood in my nose [since i got to delhi six months ago]”, i wrote in 2013. eight years on, the pollution has grown severe enough to incite judicial recommendations for shuttering the city itself